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“This Is Me Maryam Wokili Of Maryamwokili Blog"

Greetings, My name is Maryam Ladidi Wokili, am from Kogi State, Ebira by tribe. am a graduate of Mass Communication from Kogi State University. I finished in 2014. Am a Muslim from a family of 7. Am 5.3, beautiful and sexy. Wink!!!

I started Blogging in 2014 after I graduated from school because I have always wanted to go into Media and In 2016 I decided to start My own company named Maryam Wokili Media and also am a registered Journalist under My company. You guys will be seeing me soon because something BIG Is coming.

If you want to know anything about me just feel free to ask me… And yes am single…Searching? Maybe. I promise to give you the best.. Just make sure you visit this blog atleast Everyday and always comment by airing your views.. God bless you all and remember I love you.... Less I forget, I changed from MaryamWokili.com to TodayNaija....

Crazeclown Impregnated And Abandoned My Sister - Lady Alleges

A Nigerian lady has called out Comedian Crazeclown who she claimed impregnated and abandoned her sister.

The lady identified as @farida_wholesale on Instagram had earlier taken to the comment section of the actor’s post where he spoke about undying love for his newborn child and posted a photo of his expectant girlfriend baring her baby bump.

The lady then comment; “What if the child dies”.

This made the comedian lose his cool and said her father is a bastard.

The lady then went on to let the cat out of the bag saying Crazeclown has a child with his sister and wants nothing to do with them. She then cursed him saying he will know no peace.

“JoJo your husband is evil. You are insulting me when you know what you did to my sister. You abandoned your child, you don’t want anything to do with her. why impregnate her and even rain curses on our parents. No peace for the wicked. On God you won’t know peace. Na you be…………..” She alleged in one of her posts.

She further blasted him saying he will never know peace in life as there is no peace for the wicked.

Alafin of Oyo allegedly sends youngest wife packing over allegations of sleeping with KWAM 1

According to reports making the rounds on popular social media platform, Facebook and twitter, the Alafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi III has reportedly sent one of his queens, Olori Badirat Ajoke, packing from the palace over ALLEGED adultery. will popular singer, Kwam 1 de ultimate

CHIRP TELEVISION took to twitter to share the story. It wrote “Meet Olori Badirat Ajoke the youngest of ALAAFIN of Oyo’s wives sent out of the palace yesterday on allegations of having adulterous affairs with KWAM 1”.

Nigerians came for the Oba in the comment section of the post for “keeping young girls as wives”

In the report, it was alleged that Badirat Ajoke, the youngest wife cheated on him with Kwam 1 which spurred him into chasing her out of the palace.

See some reactions below…

One Ademoyegun Abiodun wrote: “Before nko? What did you expect from this young lade”?

Arisey Wrote: “LOl.. Wetin baba self dey find for this small small chicks”

One Adeyemi wrote: “Give her first and last warning Kabiyesi”

See screenshots below…

See reactions on Twitter below…

One Ayo FBI wrote: “Kwam 1 is one of the most Shameless old men who doesn’t know he’s shameless because he has been enabled far too long. What do you expect when women who worked hard for their own money go on their knees to spray him their hard earned money just because he shouted Yasin 1000times?”

One Oluwasegun Hassan wrote: “Kwam 1 is a chronic womanizer. And this is not about him being a star and an artiste. If other women just want to have his name, what about the married women and his relatives he once slept with?”

Nigerian Women Rank Most Promiscuous In Africa

A new report emerged online which ranked Nigerian women as the most promiscuous in Africa and also made the world top 15.

On the world ranking, New Zealand claims the number one spot while Switzerland and Spain taking the second and third positions.

Conspicuously missing on the list is the United State of America while Slovenia, Italy, Brazil, and Greece are placed fourth, fifth, sixth and seventh respectively with Mexico, Australia, and Croatia completing the top 10.

The world’s top 15 list below... Please note that the website didn't explain how they came about the ranking....

New Zealand

Switzerland

Spain

Slovenia

Italy

Brazil

Greece

Mexico

Australia

Croatia

The Netherlands

Czech Republic

Germany

France

NIGERIA

SIX EXPERIENCES THAT MAKE RELATIONSHIPS STRONGER THAN EVER

Some things go a long way and have more impact than you can ever imagine. Every strong relationship takes a lot of time, effort, and strength to work out for the long run, they also require a couple of special experiences, those special moments only the two of you share and always think of when you’re going through a rough patch, such memories can strengthen the bond of your relationship and save it during the bad times. Let’s begin.

1. Share your worst fears

We can be weak in front of the people we love, we can cry in front of the people we love, we have no inhibitions in front of people we love, reveal your worst fears to one another, it will create an incredible bond of trust and faith between the two of you, the kind of bond that never gets broken.

2. Having a show you share

Everyone has different taste when it comes to TV shows but it’s an amazing thing if you and your partner can share at least one show together that both of you love. For me, it’s actually a lot of shows, we discuss them so much that they take up half of our conversations. Have that one show that you can watch together and discuss about it with each other.

3. Being completely comfortable

I took a long time before I was completely comfortable with my girlfriend, but now I can’t imagine being this comfortable with anyone in my life. And by being comfortable I mean to feel at home, to feel like you’re safe and no one will judge you, that’s being comfortable.

4. Try cooking together

Cooking is fun, I don’t know much about it but I always join my girlfriend in the kitchen to just watch and learn. It’s fun to try to mix and match together and try to cook something fun for each other. Get to know each others’ tastes a little better and cook together. It’s not going to turn out perfect the first time, you two might fail at it first, but you’ll soon master cooking together. It’s also fun when you have to go grocery shopping for it.

5. Road trip

A road trip can change people, you go through so many different transitions and you learn so many new things about life and beauty. When someone goes on a road trip, they come out of their little protective bubble of comfort and they brace themselves to accept whatever comes their way, it’s a very powerful feeling. I changed after my road trip too. Now going on a road trip with your partner is just something completely life changing. You two will see a side of each other you had no idea of, and you’ll grow to be more comfortable with one another. It’s definitely an experience worth having.

6. Have the most explosive fight

This might sound a bit strange but my relationship is living proof of this one. Me and my girlfriend recently had a major fight, we screamed our lungs out at each other, it was bad. We both took a day off to think things through and to cool down. When we spoke after that fight, I felt a bit closer to her, she felt the same, it was as if our hearts just wanted to stay connected no matter what, so even in that enraged state we both managed to tell each other how much we loved each other.

Sisters In Polygamy: Food For Thought

Dear Sister going into polygamy (as 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife), please note that:

1. You must not apologize for marrying that man. He is your husband as well as that of others.

2. You don't take someone's husband Allah (SWT) gave him the opportunity to marry up to 4 and you are just one of them.

3. Don't try to be friendly with your husband's senior wife as soon as you come in. She is still trying to adjust to the situation. Observe her and know how best to deal with her. But, BE COURTEOUS..

4. You are not special or in a competition where you need to win. So don't try to out-do your co-wife. BE YOURSELF.

5. You are not a correction to the senior wife's mistake, so don't let any man fool you. If his first wife has a shortcoming, don't go out of your way to be the correction. MEN ARE INSATIABLE.

6. Be courteous in your dealing with your senior wife. She was once the toast of her husband. Remember you can also be in her situation in no time.

7. If your husband abandoned the senior wife to be with you, please don't be happy about it. Remind him of his duty and fight him to be just. Reason being that the table may turn at any time. And you will need Allah's favour then.
What will you use as TAWASUL?

8. FINALLY YOU ARE NOT A HOME BREAKER!!!Surely ALLAH (SWT) HAS SIMPLY DESTINED YOU TO BE A PART OF THAT FAMILY.

May Almighty Allah Help you all.

Two EKSU Student Caught On Camera Having S3x In A Pool (Video)

The s3x tape of two students of the Ekiti State University (EKSU) in Ado Ekiti, Ekiti State, southwest Nigeria, has emerged online.

The students’ sex tape surfaced on the internet a few hours ago through a post by a Twitter user identified only as Cimbol.

In the 30 seconds video, the supposed love birds could be seen making out in a swimming pool.

The Twitter user who shared the video simply captioned it: “Ekiti students caught having S3x inside pool they change the water of the pool.”

The development is coming just a few days after the video of two BABCOCK University students having anal s3x went viral.

Though the identities of the two students remain unknown as at the time of filing this report.

The incident took place at the leisure spring hotel situated in Osogbo, the capital of Osun state.

45 Things You Need To Know About Life - Written By 90-Year-Old

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.

5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for things that matter.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye… But don’t worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27. Always choose Life.

28. Forgive but don’t forget.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d
grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.

42. The best is yet to come…

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

More Tips To Improve Your Relationship Right

26. Acknowledge positive actions.
When you and your partner see positive actions, solutions, or behavior in one another, acknowledge it and remind each other to keep it up.

27. Establish genuine connections with the other’s friends and family.
Hang out together with both of your friends and family. This is the stuff that makes the world go ’round, people!

28. Pay attention to the tiny things that bother your partner, and if it’s painless for you, work to change them.
We’re not talking changing your laugh or your style, but if you know that your partner really hates it when you leave the kitchen counter cluttered, try to make a point of clearing it off before he gets home. It’s an easy enough thing to do and it makes their day better, so why not?

29. Never, never forget to ask about the other person’s day.
It’s such an easy slight to avoid!

30. Only one person gets to have the bad day.
If your partner’s day sucked and yours was just “eh,” let them have the pity (and the control of the remote, and the choice of take-out). If it’s you, announce it early and let them know you need the support. If it’s a toss-up, trade stories about why your days were so awful and you’ll end up laughing while trying to figure out who wins.

31. Small gifts go a long way.Bringing home a pack of their favorite candy/magazine/book by a favorite author never gets old.

32. Graham Parsons has a song lyric that says “I just want to hold you, I don’t want to hold you down.”Let that be your motto when you’re giving your partner advice.

33. Log onto Instagram and like all their photos. Just because.

34. Plan a date where you revisit the spot you went on your first date. Remember all the amazing things that brought you from then to now.

35. Go on a walk together somewhere beautiful. And don’t forget to turn off your cell phones.

36. Surprise them with dinner.One unexpected night, surprise your partner with a home-cooked meal, and a nicely-set table.

37. Review your top five favorite funny things your partner has done. Because your partner is funny! That’s part of why you like them.

38. Go to a yoga class together Or other exercise class together. Your body and relationship will thank you!

39. Go on a road trip, even if you’re not going anywhere far. It’s nice to get out of town sometimes.

40. Pick up a six-pack of toilet paper or (even better) a six-pack of beer. Without even being asked.

41. Keep the surprises coming. Think of your relationship as a creative challenge. To keep the romance fresh, come up with new date ideas, new sex positions, and new ways to demonstrate your love.

42. Plan small outings. Whether its brunch this weekend, or a trip to a new neighborhood.

43. Make out. Kissing is something that is often set to the side the longer a couple has been together. Out of blue one day, initiate a high-school style make-out session.

44. Let it go. Don’t hold onto that thing your lover said or did six months ago and bring it up each time you get mad at him. Do both of you a favor and let it go

45. Don’t interrupt.
Even if what you think your significant other is saying is uninteresting, don’t bulldoze over his or her words. Being able to listen to each other—even when the details are mundane—is important.

46. Say thanks. Let him know that you notice the little things he does by saying thank you for routine tasks like walking the dog or picking up groceries.

47. Cook a meal together. Come up with a menu, shop, and prepare the food together.

48. Have fun with hypotheticals. Conversation can become routine. Break from the ordinary and have a silly dinner conversation made entirely of imaginary situations—for example, “If you were on an island and could only bring five movies, which movies would you bring?

49. Keep a couple’s journal. Write down your desires and fantasies and leave them out for your significant other to find—encourage him to write back.

50. Agree to disagree. This is one of the most important relationship tips, as you both have strong opinions and therefore some issues will never be resolved. Respect each other’s point of view and agree not to argue about the same issue, unless it’s something that could get in the way of your future, like politics, religion, or values.

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Tips To Improve Your Relationship Right Now

Being part of a couple is hard, but the best relationship tips are really all about maintenance. You’ve got to keep things fresh, find time for each other, and come up with ways to navigate the tricky ups and downs every partnership faces. That all sounds a lot easier than it really is, so here are ways to make your relationship even better and better.

We going to discuss how to deal with jealousy and how to get over a potentially deadly lull. So with this tips you can start implementing it right now.

1. Listen.
It might sound obvious, but when you really allow yourself to listen—and ask questions about—what your partner says, it not only leads to better conversations, but also better communication.

2. Take a few days apart.
Missing each other is a great way to reconnect. Try grabbing some girlfriends for an overnight or a weekend getaway every few months.

3. Find a support team.
Have a handful of great friends or family members you can call so your significant other doesn’t have to hear every small grievance going on your life.

4. Put away your phones.
One of the biggest relationship tips is to give your undivided attention when your partner is speaking. It’s is one of the most important things you can do.

5. Volunteer together.
Giving back is a great way to keep perspective of how great your relationship is, and how lucky you both are.

6. Create a checklist.

Jot down new and fun things you want to accomplish for a day as a duo.

7. Talk to couples over 65 years old.

Get relationship tips from them, and see what you can take away to apply to your relationship.

8. Stop and appreciate all that your relationship is this very second.

Stop living for what it can be. This person is choosing to be in your life every day, not every day in the future.

9. Revisit the questions you asked in the beginning.

What are you hoping to accomplish in the next year? What are you scared of? These answers change, so we need to keep asking these questions.

10. Find 10 things you really love about them and tell them.

Guys need confidence boosters, too!

11. Stop nagging.

Seriously, stop. Take a step back and figure out the big things about your partner that truly bother you, and approach them from a place of concern and support instead of nitpicking for sport. That’ll get you nowhere.

12. Get over needing to be right.

Learning to say “I was wrong” is a skill worth learning.

13. Take care of yourself.

No relationship can be successful if you don’t feel good about yourself, both inside and out.

14. Know what you need and then ask for it.

You’re dating a human, not a magical psychic.

15. Take a class.

It’s proven that couples who learn together connect deeper. Find some common ground (cooking? art? science?) and go from there.

16. Write notes.

Whether you have study hall together or live together, handwritten notes are personal touches in today’s highly digital world.

17. Pitch in.

Help each other with chores and other necessary, if banal, activities — cooking, cleaning, re-organizing, etc. Not doing them if you live together can create tension, andalways doing them can create unfair expectations. Act as team of equals.

18. Disconnect.

Step away from the laptop during quality time. Everything on the Internet will still be there later.

19. Allow things to be what they are.

Sometimes bad days and bad moods happen. Don’t go crazy trying to make everything better. Just be supportive and loving, because just being there at the end of a bad day can make it better for both of you.

20. Create mini-traditions.

Creating small rituals can really help hold up a couple because they become “your thing.” Whether it’s a fancy night out during the holiday season, or watching a certain show every week, these are things that’ll give you both something to look forward to, and it’ll bring you closer together.

21. Be an open book.

They can either deal with it or they can’t, but if you can’t be your most honest self with this person, it’ll come out eventually.

22. Compliment, and often.

You’re there to make each other feel like your best selves, so let the genuine praise flow freely. Like his outfit? Tell him! Like her hair today? Let her know!

23. Make promises that you really can keep.

Say things that you want to follow through with out loud. It’ll make you work harder to make them happen. Having—and setting—levels of reasonable expectations for your relationship is a healthy way to keep it strong.

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